really?

i don't understand people.  certain people.  selfish people.  people who make plans that should involve you and then call you too late to participate in an effort to "make an effort" when it is apparent that the invitation was only to make it seem like they weren't the assholes. ugh.

and then when you do things correctly--like plan for a special event and make things nice and include them, they are always here to drink your beer and eat your food.  and they don't bring anything.  or they bring the ingredients to make something when they get to your house.

rude.  just rude.  and selfish.  ugh.